sugar dating experiences
sugar dating experiences
Different sugar babies and sugar daddies in Asia will meet different kinds of sugar daters on different sugar daddy platforms, such as Reddit, Facebook, TikTok, or sugar daddy sites like our legit sugar dating site for Asian sugar daters: SugarDaddies.asia. Their experiences, opinions, and expectations are also different. Here are more than a dozen real experiences from real sugar daters from different social platforms or dating sites. Some think it is worthwhile to date a sugar daddy, while others consider it is not worth it or that they will be deceived. Read the following detailed samples to evaluate whether it is worth trying a sugar daddy date.
"I made a profile on a sugar daddy dating website because I thought, "hey if I'm gonna put myself out there to date casually anyway, why don't I put myself out there and see if any rich dudes want to also buy me shit." For as long as I was interested in the whole thing, which was maybe like a couple months, I was talking to many guys and actually seeing one.
We had some fun together. Nights in nice hotels, really nice dinners, he'd buy me presents and stuff. He was kind of needy, though, and it became annoying have to be so "on" all the time. You're really acting as someone's fantasy woman and that, to me, was exhausting. We only saw each other for like two months maybe.
I can't really imagine myself wanting to dip my toes back into that particular lake. I'm 23 now which, honestly, feels like it's a little above the age range most of these men are looking to date. My curiosity was satisfied."
I've had a few guys offer, but they were very old and unattractive to me. A friend of mine has had an ongoing sugar daddy thing for years. She's stunning (looks like adriana lima with bigger boobs) and her sugar daddy is in his 50s and actually pretty good looking for an older guy. He's bought her a condo, a lexus, a couple birkin bags, jewellery, and has helped support her kid (she's a single mom). So for her it has worked out very well.
When I was a greedy naive 18 year old I dated a 35 year old that I met through a phone chat line (this is before online dating was a thing). I cringe remembering this. We didn't actually have sex but did other things. Went on a windsurfing trip (nothing spectacular), I got lots of booze, some stuff like a decent road bike and some clothes and "borrowed" money off him.
It wasn't an outright sugar daddy relationship to him but it was to me. It's a safe bet looking back he was in it to get me into bed, and I was fascinated by his living in the big city, having money and a career (relative to me). I thought he was gross and old (not good looking at all). Was it worth it? No not at all, but it was a learning experience. I really feel stupid about the whole thing many years later.
It's always been worth it for me. It's a "different" kind of sex work than I'm used to (I'm an escort), but generally speaking there's no difference between that and my other work. I'm paid monthly instead of per session, but it works out to be the same financially.
I have a few right now, maintained them for a long time. I enjoy it, it doesn't feel "wrong" because I only chose clients I'm compatible with as I would be with a friend.
Never tried it. I've been propositioned and it made me nauseous. They're all so old, desperate and bald, but worst of all they're really cynical/dead inside. It's not worth the money. Plus the unequal power relation makes me super uncomfortable. I'll take a dirt broke 20 year old with aspirations, dreams and a full head of hair! Thank you very much
I've had some beautiful experiences with sugar dating. I love going to rooftop bars so I always pitch this as one of my date ideas. Granted I don’t always get to choose but I had such a romantic date in a rooftop bar overlooking Trafalgar Square. The guy I was on a date with made me feel so comfortable and looked after, it was just a great night out.
On the flipside 've had some equally bad experiences, as you can imagine there's even more catfishes in this realm of dating. I'll leave it at that. But as a young woman with stuff to pay for it's nice to be treated to things I otherwise wouldn't do.
I have never been happier. Variety is the spice of life. Being a sugar daddy, I get to date much younger women than I should be...
Once you start dating, you incur expenses. In one relationship, I was a software engineer and she was a store clerk. I had 10x her income. I never let her pay because it seemed silly. She was just a normal girlfriend, but to others it might have appeared otherwise. She was 5′9, blonde, former cheerleader, younger than me by a few years.
Do some partners get coerced into such relationships? Yes, that happens and that is a crime. I see nothing wrong with consensual financially supported relationships.
Never had one, but I overheard a few girls in my class when I was in college talking about their sugar daddies. I didn't expect it to be so common.
When I was 19, my former best friend was off in college on the East Coast. She didn't make friends easily so she spent most of her time online looking for attention from these "sugardaddies". Sure, she had her fun going shopping, getting designer purses and clothes. She met this one sugar daddy who eventually became her boyfriend. As time wore on... I could see her self-esteem and confidence withering away. She was an independent young woman who was set on pre-med who became this girl who failed her classes and dependent on this man to validate her self-worth. Honestly, I think greed was her downfall. She was definitely materialistic. This guy was spending 20k on her a month (flights to his city, dinners, shopping trips etc) so I'm sure she felt she owes him. She tried to get me into it and it just wasn't for me. I didn't like the feeling that I had to owe somebody just because they bought me a purse. We eventually stopped talking and I have no idea what she is up to now.
I live in New York and work for a non-profit. I ended up dating two men who made significantly more than I do. Never once were they expressly "sugar daddy" relationships but they'd end up paying for the nice dinners, for trips, for a car service to take me home. They were both in their mid-thirties, I was (and am) in my early twenties. I guess it was fun - but I think (not confirmed) both of them were married / in committed relationships which made me feel shitty. I also developed feelings for one of them and had to end it cause he was never going to give me what I wanted (a relationship). All in all it was fun - but probably messed me up emotionally more than I want to admit.
The experience may vary depending on your sugar daddy, the type of arrangement, and the benefits. Some sugar babies and sugar daddies think it is worthwhile to explore sugar dating, but some members do not. Therefore, before starting sugar dating, you should consider whether you are truly open to this special relationship(no strings attached), what you really want to get from this relationship, and what your goals are.